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The Change Triangle
Hilary Jacobs Hendel
The Change Triangle®
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Parents Have Feelings, Too Book
It's Not Always Depression
INAD Audiobook Downloads
Emotions Education
Emotion Education 101™ Class
Train the Trainer Workshop
Curriculum: EE 101™ 8-Module Turnkey
Curriculum: Teen, Preteen, and Caregiver
Healing Depression: On-Demand Webinar
Working With Anger: On-Demand Webinar
FAQ's Emotions Education 101
About Heather Sanford, LCSW
Hilary's Blog
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Change Triangle Downloads
Grounding Technique
Putting Words on Emotions and Sensation
List of Common Defenses
Breathing Instructions
Instructional Videos
Free 12-Class Change Triangle Curriculum
Parenting and Kids Resources
Detaching with Love & Openheartedness
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NYC Sept '25 Book Launch LIVE Events
NY Times, It's Not Always Depression
NY Times, The Healing Power of Hugs
TIME Magazine, Op Ed
Toxic Stress and a Child’s Brain
Oprah Magazine, Rewiring My Brain
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"I Hate Myself When I Yell at My Kids" and How Understanding Emotions Helps
We can only meet our children’s feelings when we know how to meet our own.
Sep 7
3 min read
The Two Kinds of Anger and How to Process Them
Anger happens to all of us. When we get angry, we must work with it so we don't suppress it. Suppressing anger makes us depressed and/or...
Jan 28
4 min read
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