UNDERSTANDING OUR EMOTIONS IN RELATIONSHIPS

Understanding our emotions is a fundamental requirement for personal and relationship growth. This episode provides tips on how to better understand your emotions, share with your partner and connect more deeply.

In this episode, we discuss relationship advice topics that include:

Understanding how emotions work in the mind and body

  • How to work safely with our emotions and accept ourselves.

  • The importance of learning how to tune into our bodies.

  • How to deal with emotions like jealousy and process these emotions

  • How to communicate your emotions with your partner in the most productive ways

https://idopodcast.com/hilary-jacobs-hendel/

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​​SPECIAL EPISODE FROM THE ONE YOU FEED PODCAST ON DEALING WITH ANGER FROM THE COVID CRISIS

“So many of us are feeling angry for a myriad of reasons amidst the COVID-19 pandemic. To help us better understand and work with our anger, Eric reached out to several previous guests of the show to ask them if they would be willing to talk with him for a special edition of The One You Feed Podcast about anger. They all generously agreed at a moment’s notice and this episode featuring 4 “mini-interviews” is the result. These are all new conversations with previous guests, Rick Hanson, Hilary Jacobs Hendel, Ruth King, and David Richo. Click here to listen.

 

https://art19.com/shows/the-one-you-feed/episodes/fe4133eb-ce86-4631-9ef5-c1d54f2c2450

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WHY WE JUST CAN'T "GET OVER IT!"

THE MARK GROVES PODCAST

“Every single human has surely suffered with feeling invalidated for their emotions." Many of us have never really learned the true anatomy of our emotions. I explain in this episode how we build our lives around avoiding the true feeling of our emotions. For many of us, our early experiences with emotions involved being told to ‘get over it’ in one way or another. But avoiding emotions leads to anxiety and depression and other symptoms. Fully embracing emotions like anger and hurt means going against our conditioning, and some of these emotions seem downright scary. Could we end up lashing out in rage? Or could embracing our pain actually open the pathway toward calm, composure and compassion? I walk us through the model I use to help people experience — often for the first time in their lives — how to fully feel a feeling, and the freedom that this experience offers us.” Click here to listen.

https://omny.fm/shows/mark-groves/hilary-jacobs-hendel-why-you-can-t-just-get-over-i

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MENTAL ILLNESS HAPPY HOUR

If you listen to podcasts and are into personal growth, you'll love this show. I was honored to sit down in person in Los Angeles with host, comedian, and mental health advocate, Paul Gilmartin. The conversation is up close and personal, as we discussed our own struggles. And, of course, we talked about why it’s crucial to understand emotions to thrive in modern life and what you need to know that can make a big difference in your immediate wellbeing. Hope you enjoy! Click here to listen.

https://mentalpod.com/archives/5438

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ESTHER PEREL'S SALON ON RELATIONSHIPS

Listen to Esther Perel and me discuss how a basic education in emotions helps our relationships thrive and grow deeper. Click below to watch:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jIZVNS58Fhg&t=7s

BEFORE YOU KILL YOURSELF
A live therapy demonstration, tips for handling jealousy and envy, and the challenges of allowing ourselves to feel big and proud are just some of the topics we covered in this podcast. Host and comedian Leo Flowers asked important questions relevant for us all. You will get many practical tips and quite a bit of new information in this episode. I hope you enjoy listening as much as I enjoyed sharing.

https://art19.com/shows/before-you-kill-yourself/episodes/e486e8fc-54d3-4899-b2a4-9114b7df55ed

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I was at the iconic Strand Bookstore last Wednesday (2/7/18) to kick off the launch of It's Not Always Depression, my new book sharing the goldmine of emotion education I learned in my trauma and emotion-centered psychotherapy training so it can help all people who want to feel better. Watch it here on YouTube. 

Click here to listen to a new podcast on core emotions and The Change Triangle.

Video Interview on Shrink Rap Radio

In this comprehensive hour long video, I share the origin of the Change Triangle, how it helps with anxiety, depression and more and why I am passionate about sharing it with others. 

Video Interview on Mary Giuliani Live

Mary Giuliani and I talk about how to use emotions to feel more confident and connected and to recover from trauma. 

11 TIPS TO PREVENT FIGHTS DURING QUARANTINE

 

I share tips from my perspective as an emotion educator and a trauma-informed and emotion-centered psychotherapist who helps couples. I teach a practical tool called the Change Triangle, which is simply the best tool I have come across to teach the public how emotions work in the mind and body. We don't get this information in our formal schooling but we need it to thrive amidst life's many challenges. And, this pandemic is a BIG one!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YhcZwjixAzk&t=8s

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THE CHANGE TRIANGLE FOR GUYS: NORMALIZING EMOTIONS FOR MEN WITH HILARY JACOBS HENDEL

THE BARBERSHOP GROUP PODCAST FOR MEN

 

The mission of The Barbershop Group is to create an emotionally safe space for men to discuss and address topics of mental health and wellbeing.

 

Men get a raw deal in our dysfunctional society. They are taught tender emotions like sadness and fear are weak. Men are taught it's weak to need love, friendship, soothing, tenderness in relationships, etc. Needs and emotions, other than anger and sexual excitement, get buried to uphold this unrealistic sense of manliness. Disavowing emotions and needs lead to anxiety, depression, addictions, aggression, and more. But anyone can learn and grow to feel stronger, calmer, and more confident. It begins with a practical education in emotions. The Change Triangle is my favorite tool.

CLOSE THE CHAPTER PODCAST

The mission for Close the Chapter Podcast is to help you through life’s transitions, navigate the hard and lonely times along the journey, learn helpful and powerful ways to cope with emotions and transitions, and empower you to discover the REAL you. In this episode, Kristen interviews me about using our emotions as a direct pathway to healing psychological suffering.This episode is to help you feel more calm, content, compassionate and connected. Hope you enjoy! Click here to listen.

http://kristendboice.libsyn.com/close-the-chapter-podcast-episode-28-its-not-always-depression-with-hilary-jacobs-hendel

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ZURA HEALTH PODCAST

Kylie McBeath is all about health, growth, love, and wellbeing. In this episode we talk about how to use emotions for greater wellbeing. Hope you enjoy! Click here to listen.

https://www.zurahealth.co/zura-podcast/befriending-your-emotions-with-author-hilary-jacobs-hendel

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THE ONE YOU FEED

Recently I was interviewed by Eric Zimmer, host of the award-winning podcast The One You Feed. I think it is one of the best interviews on emotions I have done (she said humbly) so I am sharing it. Emotion education has so many benefits and we get none of this life-changing information in our formal schooling…yet. The Change Triangle is an invaluable tool for anyone with emotions — which is all of us — to meet the many emotional challenges of modern life.

https://link.medium.com/d0MbHOiGnX

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RELATIONSHIP ALIVE!

"Beneath anxiety, depression, guilt, and shame, are core emotions that are hardwired into our circuitry. When you’re able to tap into the core emotions – and move through them – you’ll feel a new sense of freedom and empowerment – with the ability to handle anything that life sends your way. Our guest today is Hilary Jacobs Hendel. She’s a psychotherapist and the author of the new book, “It’s Not Always Depression: Working the Change Triangle to Listen to the Body, Discover Core Emotions, and Connect to Your Authentic Self,” which will definitely be a game changer for you. Today she has some practical tips for you on how to identify and work through these core emotions, so that you don’t get stuck in the secondary emotions that can get in your way.

https://www.neilsattin.com/blog/2019/06/196-harnessing-the-transformative-power-of-your-core-emotions-the-change-triangle-with-hilary-jacobs-hendel/

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THE INTERNAL BATTLE

I really enjoyed my time chatting with the young and energetic Ricardo Mirville. His new podcast The Internal Battle addresses the conflicts that hold as back from becoming our most confident selves. Check it out! Below is a snippet:

KAREN HUNTER SHOW | SIRIUS XM URBAN VIEW

I was so thrilled to be on The Karen Hunter Show on SiriusXM Radio on Wednesday (2/7/18). Click here to listen to a segment on wallowing in sadness. Karen Hunter, Cousin Syl, and I discuss grief and sadness. Karen doesn't like the idea of wallowing. But I try to help her understand the difference between wallowing and allowing ourselves to feel so we can heal. Important topic! 

Click here to listen to the The Biggest Job podcast. We talked about emotions and parenting.

 

 

TRAUMA THERAPIST PODCAST

Click here to listen to the Trauma Therapist podcast. I talk about AEDP, the emotion-centered, trauma and attachment-oriented psychotherapy I practice. We also talk about shame-based depression and what that means. 

 

Click here to listen to Mental Health News Radio. This podcast is on relationships, core emotions and trauma.