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The Change Triangle
Hilary Jacobs Hendel
The Change Triangle
Emotions Education
Emotion Education 101 8-Module Class
Train the Trainer Workshop
Curriculum: EE 101 8- Module Turnkey
Curriculum: Teen, Preteen, and Caregiver
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Working With Anger: On-Demand Webinar
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Free 12-Class Change Triangle Curriculum
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I learned of an entirely new way of working where the focus was not only on helping a person gain insight but on fostering healing.
Apr 15, 2019
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5 Enlightened Ways to Think About Mental Health
We need a world where no one feels embarrassed or ashamed about their suffering. We need a world where suffering evokes only kindness.
Mar 15, 2019
4 min read
The Problem With Yelling
“The problem with verbal abuse is there is no evidence,” Marta shared. She came for help with a long-standing depression.
Sep 14, 2017
4 min read
Start Fantasizing!
“You cannot change the past, but you can change how you feel about the past.”
Dec 15, 2016
4 min read
What Renee Taught Me About Why Some People Harm Themselves
Renee and I worked together on calming her anxiety by learning what emotions were being triggered. We accessed and processed anger.
Sep 15, 2016
3 min read
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