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Don’t Forget Excitement: An Overlooked Core Emotion
Some of us were taught to “tone it down” or not get our hopes up. We have learned to disavow our excitement, a core emotion.
Jun 7, 20253 min read


Feeling Anxious? You Might Have an Internal Conflict
The next time you feel anxious, consider the idea that you might be in conflict about something.
Feb 7, 20244 min read


Advice on Easing Guilt & Jealousy
Guilt and jealousy are two very challenging emotions. The approaches I share here have helped me with them immensely.
Sep 7, 20233 min read


Pick Your Poison: Guilt or Resentment
For most of us the “guilt versus resentment choice” will rear its difficult head. When those times arise, here are some tips that might.
Aug 8, 20215 min read


Stop Blaming (yourself)
We blame ourselves. We beat ourselves up. We call ourselves names like “loser” and “failure.” And then we wonder why we feel small, alone
Feb 3, 20163 min read


Teen Parenting Blog Repost: When Being a “Bad Guy” Leads To Good
When is guilt good and when is it unhealthy?
Sep 28, 20152 min read

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