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Feeling Anxious? You Might Have an Internal Conflict

Hilary Jacobs Hendel

Feb 7
4 min

Feeling Anxious? You Might Have an Internal Conflict

The next time you feel anxious, consider the idea that you might be in conflict about something.

Advice on Easing Guilt & Jealousy

Hilary Jacobs Hendel

Sep 7, 2023
3 min

Advice on Easing Guilt & Jealousy

Guilt and jealousy are two very challenging emotions. The approaches I share here have helped me with them immensely.

Pick Your Poison: Guilt or Resentment

Hilary Jacobs Hendel

Aug 8, 2021
5 min

Pick Your Poison: Guilt or Resentment

For most of us the “guilt versus resentment choice” will rear its difficult head. When those times arise, here are some tips that might.

Stop Blaming (yourself)

Hilary Jacobs Hendel

Feb 3, 2016
3 min

Stop Blaming (yourself)

We blame ourselves. We beat ourselves up. We call ourselves names like “loser” and “failure.” And then we wonder why we feel small, alone

Teen Parenting Blog Repost: When Being a “Bad Guy” Leads To Good

Hilary Jacobs Hendel

Sep 28, 2015
2 min

Teen Parenting Blog Repost: When Being a “Bad Guy” Leads To Good

When is guilt good and when is it unhealthy?

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