top of page
Parents Have Feelings, Too -
Pre-order now | Coming September 23, 2025
Publishers Weekly Starred Review "This is a game-changer for parents and their children."
The Change Triangle
Hilary Jacobs Hendel
The Change Triangle
Emotions Education
Emotion Education 101 8-Module Class
Train the Trainer Workshop
Curriculum: EE 101 8- Module Turnkey
Curriculum: Teen, Preteen, and Caregiver
Healing Depression: On-Demand Webinar
Working With Anger: On-Demand Webinar
FAQ's Emotions Education 101
Toolbox
Hilary's Blog
Change Triangle Downloads
Grounding Technique
Putting Words on Emotions and Sensation
List of Common Defenses
Breathing Instructions
Instructional Videos
Free 12-Class Change Triangle Curriculum
Parenting and Kids Resources
Detaching with Love & Openheartedness
Books
Parents Have Feelings, Too Book
It's Not Always Depression
Audiobook Downloads
About/Services
About Hilary Jacobs Hendel
Sessions and Consultations
Speaking Engagements
News/Events
NYC Sept '25 Book Launch LIVE Events
NY Times, It's Not Always Depression
NY Times, The Healing Power of Hugs
TIME Magazine, Op Ed
Toxic Stress and a Child’s Brain
Oprah Magazine, Rewiring My Brain
Podcasts & Interviews
Television Appearances
Resources
About Heather Sanford
Favorite Resources
Reviews
Testimonials
Use tab to navigate through the menu items.
The Problem With Yelling
“The problem with verbal abuse is there is no evidence,” Marta shared. She came for help with a long-standing depression.
Sep 14, 2017
4 min read
What Renee Taught Me About Why Some People Harm Themselves
Renee and I worked together on calming her anxiety by learning what emotions were being triggered. We accessed and processed anger.
Sep 15, 2016
3 min read
The Difference Between Sex and Love For Men (And Women)
Jonathan craves sex when he’s lonely. He believes it is weak to let someone know that he's lonely and to admit that he needs company.
Jul 13, 2016
3 min read
Stop Blaming (yourself)
We blame ourselves. We beat ourselves up. We call ourselves names like “loser” and “failure.” And then we wonder why we feel small, alone
Feb 3, 2016
3 min read
Welcome to
Hilary's Blog.
bottom of page