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Hilary Jacobs Hendel
Oct 7, 20242 min read
When You Make a Mistake, What Happens Next?
When you make a mistake do you pick yourself up or beat yourself up?

Hilary Jacobs Hendel and Juli Fraga, PsyD
Sep 7, 20227 min read
Healing From Trauma Means Dealing With Disgust
This article was originally published on Slate.com on 6/20/22. Irene recently came to therapy because her anxiety had been revving up,...


Hilary Jacobs Hendel
May 9, 20224 min read
“He’s an Idiot!” Considering the Judgments We All Make
"He's an idiot," my father would snap when someone didn't do something the way he wanted. It didn't bother me then. But now I realize my...


Hilary Jacobs Hendel
Apr 5, 20205 min read
10 Tips to Prevent Fights with Loved Ones
More than ever people need tools to handle their emotions. We must work hard to NOT take out stress on our loved ones.


Hilary Jacobs Hendel
Nov 14, 20195 min read
Disgust: A Natural Emotional Response to Abuse
Disgust is an emotion that is rarely talked about but is very important for healing from verbal, physical, and sexual abuse.

Hilary Jacobs Hendel
Feb 13, 20175 min read
Why Are People Mean?
Cecily grew up in a family with lots of shouting and sometimes some hitting. Cecily naturally thought yelling and hitting WAS anger. I
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